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narc-decoder-reviewThe Narc Decoder: Understanding the Language of the Narcissist

Divorcing a narcissist? You are probably left feeling baffled and shaken by the communication that you receive from the narcissist. In my mid-twenties, I contemplated learning multiple foreign languages. I envisioned dabbling in French to successfully make my way around Paris or Irish Gaelic to explore the rich history of Ireland along with my deep ancestral roots in that country. My mind summoned several foreign adventures, but never did I think I would need to learn a foreign language to navigate my own life. In 2008, I heard the words, “Narcissistic Personality Disorder” (NPD) to describe my then-husband, Seth. It took a couple years for the reality of those three little words to really sink in. Once you understand how to use the Narc Decoder, your life will change for the better. You will become empowered and will regain your voice. Over time, you will begin to find humor in the communication style that once left you on your knees begging for mercy.

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Tina’s other books:

Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom’s Battle

At the age of 26, Tina Swithin was swept off her feet by a modern day Prince Charming. Married just one year later, Tina soon discovered that there was something seriously wrong with her fairytale. The marriage was filled with lies, deception, fraud and many tears. Tina was left in an utter state of confusion. This wasn’t the man that she married…or was it?Tina first heard the term, “Narcissistic Personality Disorder” from her therapist in 2008 but I quickly dismissed the notion that something could be wrong withher husband. It took several years for Tina to begin researching the disorder and suddenly, the past ten years of her life made complete sense. Tina soon discovered that there is only one thing more difficult than being married to a narcissist and that is divorcing a narcissist.

Available in paperback, Kindle and audio. Click here to buy on Amazon.

 

Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield

Prior to stepping onto the battlefield with a Narcissist, it is imperative to know their playbook both forwards and backwards. The behavior of individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder generally defies logic but sadly, their tactics in the Family Court System often fool Judges, Commissioners, Attorneys, Minor’s Counsel, Social Workers, Therapists and even trained Evaluators. Narcissists are the masters of manipulation and projection and are known to launch stealth assaults that will leave their victims in an utter state of confusion and desperation. Victims are often left shattered and without a voice because they feel that no one could possibly believe or understand what they are silently enduring. Author, Tina Swithin, understands what it’s like to divorce a narcissist. Tina spent over four years on the battlefield of the Family Court System while acting as her own attorney in a desperate attempt to protect her two young daughters. This book offers solid advice and sanity-saving wisdom for transforming from victim to survivor. Filled with advice for every stage of the battle including leaving the narcissist, advice on finding an attorney, tactical moves, courtroom preparation, anxiety/PTSD, evaluations and more. Learn to decode the nasty emails and take your power back when it comes to communication.

Available in paperback, Kindle and audio. Click here to buy on Amazon.

 

Divorcing a Narcissist: Rebuilding After The Storm

Tina Swithin’s life was hit by a devastating Life Storm in 2009. Tina had recently heard the words, “Narcissistic Personality Disorder” used to describe her then-husband by a therapist yet she had no real understanding of how this disorder would turn her life upside down during a custody battle that spanned six-years. In less than a year, Tina lost her home, businesses, cars, worldly possessions and her marriage. In one fell swoop, everything was gone. In Family Court, Tina acted as her own attorney and finally, in 2014, secured peace and safety for her young daughters. A true ‘lemon to lemonade’ story, Tina has rebuilt her life and thrives in the aftermath of the Life Storm that threatened to destroy her. Tina has found solace is sharing her internationally recognized story with others in her series, “Divorcing a Narcissist.” She has dedic
ated her life to advocacy and consulting with others facing the same battles. In her new book, “Rebuilding After the Storm,” Tina takes her readers through the steps to rebuild their lives and thrive post-narcissist. Dr. Craig Malkin, psychology instructor at Harvard Medical School states, “If you need to start over, this is the woman you want holding your hand through the process.”

Available in paperback, Kindle and audio. Click here to buy on Amazon.